Curate, Don’t Accumulate
Living a Life in Overwhelming Times
Mindset (This is where we start, gently.) Let’s say this out loud: living right now is a lot. The noise is constant. The stakes feel personal. Every day asks more of our attention, our empathy, our nervous systems, and very few of us were given a manual. If you feel overwhelmed, you’re not failing. You’re paying attention. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about steadying yourself. Think of mindset as your internal style guide. Not aspirational. Not perfect. Just humane. This is where you decide which thoughts get to stay close and which ones need a little space to breathe. You curate the beliefs of your future self while honoring the fact that today’s self is doing their best. Some days, their best is brave. Some days, it’s just getting through. Both count.
You. 2026. What’s Your Cover Story? Not the polished one. The true one. Are you someone who stayed tender in a hard time? Someone who learned how to care without burning out? Someone who figured out how to keep going, one ordinary day at a time? Does your home feel like refuge, not performance? Does your calendar leave room for rest, connection, and small kindnesses, not just productivity? When you catch your reflection, can you say, “Yes. I’m still here. I’m still me.” Because your life isn’t waiting for another resolution. It’s waiting for care. For clarity. For a vision that allows you to be both informed and intact. And this is where that begins.
Curate. Don’t Accumulate. Not the news cycles. Not the outrage. Not the pressure to have everything figured out. You don’t need to carry it all. You were never meant to. You need moments of quiet. Conversations that remind you you’re not alone. Daily practices that help you stay present in your body and generous in your heart. This isn’t about checking out. It’s about choosing how you show up. One day at a time. One thoughtful choice. One act of care, for yourself and for someone else. You’re not fixing your life. You’re tending it. And in a time like this, that’s not small. That’s everything.
_______ If you’re reading this feeling unsteady, tender, or worn thin by the start of the year, please know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not imagining it. These are heavy days, and many of us are carrying more than we can easily name. I’d love to hear how you’re moving through this moment. What’s helping you stay grounded right now? What small practices or habits are offering steadiness or relief? How are you caring for yourself while still staying connected to what you care about? And just as importantly, how might we support one another here? What kind of support feels nourishing in this season? Conversation, humor, quiet, shared witnessing, practical kindness, something else entirely? This space is open. There’s no right answer. Just honesty. Let’s listen generously and remind one another that we don’t have to carry everything alone. One day at a time is enough. --G




I have a very sensitive and deeply empathetic heart and living these days can feel incredibly overwhelming.
I’m also prone to depression and have very deep feelings of sadness and anxiety.
Just being alive in this country that I love, being constantly bombarded with the utter hypocrisy of our elected leaders who say one thing and then do the exact opposite. The constant lies and gaslighting is making my brain hurt. The violence that our government is perpetuating and spreading is breaking my soul.
In order to try to keep from going crazy, I have a practice that helps me calm my heart and soul enough to be able to sleep at night. I put the book I’ve been reading on the nightstand, take off my glasses and turn off the light. In a soft voice I say out loud:
Behind me peaceful
Before me peaceful
Under me peaceful
Over me peaceful
Inside me peaceful
(Navajo prayer)
And every morning before my feet hit the floor I say that Navajo prayer so I’m ready to face the day. And these days it’s getting harder and harder to remain peaceful.
The horrible events that have taken place over the last 24 hours have broken my heart and enraged me. I don’t know how to keep both of those emotions in my heart and body at the same time. I simultaneously scream at the television and cry buckets of tears. It’s all too much to process.
I just wake up and take one day at a time.I try to ignore the little things that don’t need my attention now or if ever and put one step in front of the other very quietly.My Grampa used to say- I am still here because god turned another page.